I have a Facebook account and I am thoroughly enjoying catching up with people from all over. My teenager even voluntarily friended me, however at 44, I suppose I’m still considered “old” in that world. But, that’s really OK because the fastest growing demographic on Facebook is between 35 and 54 , so I’m actually part of the “in” crowd for a change.

Younger folks may feel that we’ve ruined Facebook for them, but Lev Grossman has some pretty compelling reasons that Facebook is for Old Fogies:

1. Facebook is about finding people you’ve lost track of. And, son, we’ve lost track of more people than you’ve ever met. Remember who you went to prom with junior year? See, we don’t. We’ve gone through multiple schools, jobs and marriages. Each one of those came with a complete cast of characters, most of whom we have forgotten existed. But Facebook never forgets. (See the best social-networking applications.)

2. We’re no longer bitter about high school. You’re probably still hung up on any number of petty slights, but when that person who used to call us that thing we’re not going to mention here, because it really stuck, asks us to be friends on Facebook, we happily friend that person. Because we’re all grown up now. We’re bigger than that. Or some of us are, anyway. We’re in therapy, and it’s going really well. These are just broad generalizations.

As the article goes on to point out, it’s sometimes wonderful to revisit your past, and tech savvy boomers and seniors are able to do just that on sites like Facebook. Reminiscing can keep you feeling young. For instance, I guess I am older than the original target audience for Facebook, but I think it bothers the “youngsters” more than it bothers me. There’s room for everyone if you just mind your manners and I think Ivy Bean, a 102-year-old Facebook user, might agree with me.

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